SLAM Revisted - JUNE 2020 (unedited)

This is our framework for how to listen to your spouse.

Silent

  • Silent=Listen

Summarize

So what I hear you saying is ____? Correct?

Label

  • It seems like.....
  • It sounds like...
  • It looks like...

Affirm

  • Can I just say I really appreciate ____ about you?

Mirror

  • Mirror their emotions.
  • Give them your eye's ears and emotions.